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Anyone who is a reader of this blog knows that I am not an advice columnist. The only advice I’ve ever given here on this blog are my cheeky wurdz of WIZdum. They are not meant to be followed. And the only people from whom I seek relationship advice are those who are in relationships. [...]
New York City is a place that allows me to be single without judgment. I have found this to be profoundly different in my travels around the country and the world, and my heart goes out to other singles in those places who have outside pressures that make it hard to feel the luxury [...]
NewKidInTown winked at me. I loathe winks. You know this. When will they ever learn? I’d spent two weeks ignoring 87 winks and a handful of e-mails from losers, illiterates and cut’n’paste jobs. And I really just wanted a date.
NewKidInTown was cute. And he was 6’3″. Those don’t come along too often.
So I wrote him.
Subject: [...]
More than a week had passed with no word from Didier. I’d chalked him up to another disappearing act and fell victim to the insanity that boils within any woman to whom this has ever happened. And I’m fairly certain it’s happened to all of us.
It’s amazing, really, the effect of the disappearing act. It [...]
Is there anyone out there who doesn’t know and read Simone? I thought not. There’s probably nothing I can say here that you don’t already know, but Simone is a special woman, a rare bird, a good friend. She is whip-smart and can usually see the forest through the trees as well as any bullshit [...]
Mirror, Mirror
Of The Internet
What’s with all the e-mails I get?
This is a topic I have been muddling over from the moment I received my very first e-mail communication upon re-entry to the online dating world. My profile hadn’t been up for twenty minutes before Summerskirts had written me. He was a married cross-dresser [...]
So I was sure that I had dived to the depths of negativity as it pertained to my dating life. So many disappointments. I was finding it hard to sustain positive energy, let alone energy at all as it pertained to dating.
Adonis Snuffleupagopoulos had shown his hand and it was full of Jokers. I’d liked [...]
I started writing How Very Lucky on a whim. Those of you that have been reading along with me from the beginning have read about it. It was nothing short of a coping mechanism for my re-entry into the dating world. I knew there would be good dates and bad dates and crazy dates and [...]
I woke up way before my alarm did this morning. Usually, I would probably choose to slumber, but today, I shot out of bed like a firecracker. I flipped on the bedside lamp and caught a glimpse of my morning beauty. And by beauty, I mean tired eyes, pillow marks on my face and a [...]
I had written and posted a KiSS & TELL about my date with Adonis. It had been the first date I’d agreed to go on in a long time. I had been looking forward to it. I was nervous about it. And then he’d done a couple things leading up to the date that I [...]
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