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Where do I begin? Where have I been?
For starters: work. The fall is my busiest season, and this one was no exception. Except that it was busier than most. Fortunate for the challenges and experience it brought. Unfortunate for the missed moments. The leaves from green to gold, amber, buff, brown and bare. The winds [...]
Anyone who is a reader of this blog knows that I am not an advice columnist. The only advice I’ve ever given here on this blog are my cheeky wurdz of WIZdum. They are not meant to be followed. And the only people from whom I seek relationship advice are those who are in relationships. [...]
I wanted to believe everything Didier had said. I chose to believe it. I did believe it.
He’d finally left me that night leaning in my doorway, still weak from the power of his kiss and smiling with the promise of our next meeting. He’d almost left two other times earlier, but our kiss goodnight landed [...]
Yesterday, I bought my first pack of cigarettes in probably a year. I chain smoked them. I used to be a smoker. I don’t want to be a smoker. But it was a bad day. I was hurt and I was crying.
I’d felt empowered earlier. I’d put an end to the dysfunction of whatever it [...]
Greetings from Miami! I’ve been down here for work this week, with no time to write – which is why I haven’t posted.
It was bittersweet landing here. I hadn’t thought of him since our third “preemptory break-up” (since we never actually met in person). Mr. Kryptonite lives here, and the pit in my stomach grew [...]
For me, the main difference between a relationship and a friendship comes down to five simple words (plus an additional three):
I wanna jump your bones (and often do).
Anything else is friend territory. Sure, I’ve had friends whose bones I wanted to jump. But they didn’t want to jump mine, we didn’t do any bone-jumping and [...]
The other day I posted a story. It may have been one of my favorites, and judging from the responses I received, it may have been one of yours as well. Readers had a string of reactions to my tale of a Pink Hellhome. Many of you applauded this post, celebrating the sassy and raving [...]
I have now received THREE e-mails from women that received the same letter from Chef Fred. They were kind enough to forward that letter to me. It was more than just that one quote. It was VERBATIM with a few minor tweaks (like substituting the screen name of whomever he was writing).
Maybe he’s a good [...]
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