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Tap Tap’s Tommy Sanders hates talking about lyrics. “Some are personal. Some are just poetry and nonsense”, he says. This song is both. And more. Because it makes sense. Because it is a seemingly sweet song with a melancholic filling. It is the moment and the morning after. The hangover. The hazy feeling of simultaneous [...]
To my readers and friends,
It’s amazing to think that nearly a year has gone by since I first began How Very Lucky! You didn’t know me at this time last year, so what you also may not know is that this is the busiest time of year for me at work.
The last couple of weeks [...]
Live The Life You Love.
That’s what we’re all here trying to do. Sometimes successfully, other times, not as much.
Because the thing is, we all struggle. Every one of us. We’re all damaged. I don’t think struggle discriminates between the singles and the settled. But then, neither does joy.
Those of use who are single, we are [...]
So Pastor Terry Jones shot into the limelight out of obscurity. The bonfire of the insanities. This pentecostal pastor leading a flock of fifty somehow managed to become the tree in the forest that everyone heard. I can’t, for the life of me, comprehend how the media came to acknowledge this minuscule ministry and lend [...]
Mohandas Ghandi said, “The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.“
Now, we all know what he meant, but indulge me as I take a huge liberty here. Because I’d like to tell you where I found myself receiving the service of others. Completely and utterly lost. In the [...]
lovingly dedicated to the family and memory of Jeanie Roger
It was a Tuesday morning. I lived in Brooklyn at the time. I was enjoying a cup of coffee in my garden, watching the koi swim to surface in pursuit of the food I’d sprinkled over the small pond. It was still warm enough for them [...]
New York City is a place that allows me to be single without judgment. I have found this to be profoundly different in my travels around the country and the world, and my heart goes out to other singles in those places who have outside pressures that make it hard to feel the luxury [...]
Long before Phillip Markoff entered the spotlight, it seemed fairly obvious that Craigslist was not a good place to find love. Markoff just happened to come along and cast a big, giant light on this fact. Because of him, Julissa Brisman never lived to see beyond her brief 25 years.
The thing about Craigslist, as opposed [...]






“Live The Life You Love!” Giveaway, Part I
By Lucky Girl Monday September 13, 2010
As many of you know, I began writing How Very Lucky at a time when I was re-entering the Dating Game. I was nervous, both about dating and about writing. But I had realized that a bad situation almost always equals a funny story, and so when my first online suitor showed up with an [...]